Sexy vs. Sensual South Florida Boudoir Photography

Sexy vs. Sensual South Florida Boudoir Photography

The #1 thing women say they want from their boudoir photoshoot is to look sexy

When considering your best boudoir photography experience, consider the differences between wanting to feel sexy versus wanting to feel sensual …

Sexy is how others perceive you

sex·y    def: provoking or intended to provoke sexual interest.
Generally speaking “sexy” is a term commonly used by men to describe women they are sexually attracted to.  It is how they perceive the woman by how she looks. If a women dresses in certain outfits or shows her body off, then it is an invitation for men to look at her and desire her sexually. 
Sexy is how others perceive you, and if that is your goal, if your images are strictly for the enjoyment of other eyes and not your own, then that would be a good word to describe the feeling you would like to get from your  boudoir photography experience.
And if that is the case, I suggest you consider Erotica boudoir photography. There is genre of boudoir photography called Erotica that documents and celebrates a woman’s sexuality. There are some who would consider this imagery pornography. However, if it can be done tastefully, and it can be beautiful and a freedom of sexual expression for the women, and very therapeutic. Erotica photography can also border the line of pornography if the imagery is only meant for others to enjoy, and in my opinion can be objectifying to women’s bodies.

SEnsual is how you see yourself

sen·su·al    def: relating to the feelings of your body

So this is a completely different expression. Sensual is relating to yourself and how you feel about your own  desirability. If you want to feel like a women then you want to feel sensual. Then this is the word you would use to describe how you would ie to feel in your boudoir photography experience.

Being sensual means getting pleasure from the physical world, and taking the time to indulge in the senses. Though people think that being sensual has a sexual connotation, it doesn’t have to be that way; taking the time to enjoy a fresh croissant filled with butter in the middle of a busy morning can be just as sensual as giving your partner a massage after work. The important thing is to slow down and enjoy the physical sensations around you instead of rushing about your day.

So how can you be a more sensual person?

Take pleasure in your own body. No, this doesn’t mean what you’re thinking — it just means that, if you want to be a sensual person, that you have to be comfortable in your own skin first and foremost. If you’re not happy with who you are or how you look, then it’ll be much more difficult for you to let go and let your body enjoy the world around you, whether you’re kissing your partner or sunbathing on the beach. Work on building your confidence and self-esteem, and soon, you’ll see that you’ll be getting more pleasure and joy out of the ordinary things around you

This doesn’t mean you have to look like a supermodel, or even think that you look like a supermodel. It just means that you have to love your body and be open to whatever sensations the world may bring it.

The best way to feel more like a sensual person is to book a boudoir photo session with me!  This is exactly the kind of boudoir experience you will be getting. One that helps you to take the time to get comfortable in your own skin and enjoy your body, your beauty and your femininity.

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